Zero-sum gender.

Rowdy mentioned to a coworker that I have more power tools than he does. "Wow," the coworker said, "doesn't that kinda c...

Cock.

Man I love strapping on a cock. It's not that I am or want to be a guy, just that it's nice to have the option from time to time. ...

Buying deodorant etc.

Buying deodorant; or, how to drive yourself completely insane via the most trivial interactions of popular culture and feminist thought. I a...

Punnett squares.

In my tenth grade biology class, while we were learning about genetics, our teacher gave us an interesting take-home assignment. It was a l...

Supply-Side Rape Prevention.

I've posted quite a few times ( 1 , 2 , 3 , and more) on why the commonly given "rape prevention" advice is mostly ineffective...

Out.

I told my family about being poly. I didn't mention being kinky and I didn't get into gritty details--lots of "the three of us...

Cosmo on rape--the perfect shitstorm.

I can't believe I didn't write about this article before. From Cosmopolitan: A New Kind of Date Rape Executive summary: rape is only...

Zoe and Wash.

In the sci-fi series Firefly , two of the main characters--tough-girl first mate Zoe and goofy pilot Wash--are married to each other. They ...

How to make your own simple strap-on harness: a photo guide!

First of all, to establish my dorky maker cred (as if that needed doing), this is the bed I sleep in every night: Oh yeah--it lights up. It ...

Maker Love.

"I reject your cuddles and substitute my own!" It's one thing to merely quote Adam Savage, or even the parallel universe Adam ...

Quick note on fattedness.

Like most fat people, I'm not fat because I take in more calories than I burn. I'm fat because I take in the same amount of calori...

The Atlantic on: Why porn proves sex is grim and miserable!

This is one of those links that have been peristalsing their way around the blogosphere for a little bit: Hard Core: The new world of porn i...

The card table paradigm.

Since the PUA post seems to be stirring discussion, I want to talk about just one small part of the whole wacky mindset: card tables. There ...

War of the sexes, with pretentious line breaks.

If we are at war and men lose by falling in love and women lose by making love who would ever want to win?

Poly Morality.

"If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours. If it doesn't, it never was." I believe that. ...

Gunwitch.

Pick-up artist "Gunwitch" shot a woman in the face at a party. 20-year-old Amber Tripp was in critical condition at time of last...

Evolution, rape, ovulation, and how to get your opinions labeled "Science."

I should declare, before going on, that I just finished my period and haven't ovulated yet. So take the following with a grain of aware...

Awesome.

Kind of awesome: having a theme date. Awesome: the theme is "Robo Date." Very awesome: as in "let's have a date where we ...

Do you scream?

You're a girl. You're youngish, smallish, and while you're certainly not helpless, your assertiveness skills are only medium. G...

Snowed in.

Due to heavy snow and a demanding schedule, I didn't go home today. A few other employees and I commandeered extra beds and slept in the...

Male Victim.

The other night at the ER we had a man who had been assaulted by his girlfriend. This wasn't some demure little ladyslap either. This ...

Sunaina - Biography

Sunaina was born on 17 April 1989 in Nagpur, Maharashtra. She did her schooling at the Mount Carmel Girls' High School, Nagpur and now s...

Cosmocking: February '11!

Pink cover! Mila Kunis! Whoever that is! "The Attitude that Makes Her Effortlessly Sexy!" Yes, with only years of diet and exe...

Vidi, vici, veni.

I've always found the notion of sexual "conquest" kind of hilarious. You let someone see you naked, touch your most sensitive...

Spot of tea?

My friend was fucking his girlfriend doggy-style. I was underneath them, licking her pussy, and every few strokes he would pull out and I w...

Transphilia.

I feel tremendously attracted to transgendered guys. It's an embarrassingly inordinate lust; obviously I'm not attracted to every ...

Muscle.

The meat of my pectoralis muscle is hidden under my breasts, but at the top, there's an exposed strip, a sweeping curve running over my ...

...Giant whiteboards?

Man, how did people ever manage polyamory before Google Calendar?

Vinnai Thandi Varuvaaya

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Breeder!

Back in the day, we picked up a very drunk guy in the ambulance. (Actually, this was back in nearly all the days. Ambulancing is a drunkt...

Quiet night.

Last night Sprite and Rowdy and I got together and... pretty much just stayed in. We ate some takeout, exchanged belated Christmas presents...

The Money Is Not The Problem Economic Theory.

I'd apologize for going off topic, but people never seem to mind--in fact, seems like I get more "ugh, sex again?" mail then I...

Resolute.

I usually don't do the New Year's Resolutions thing, because resolving to do something is very personal and not for a big public hol...

Manmadhan Ambu - Kamal Hassan Rocks with Trisha

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