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Ten shades of "false rape accusations."

[TRIGGER WARNING for rape and post-rape legal/social mess] There's a lot of talk out there about "false rape accusations," whi...

Four years!

Today is my fourth bloggiversary! That's 1264 posts spanning across 5 homes, 4 relationships, 3 jobs, a move across the country, and a ...

Naming, shaming, and victim blaming.

[Because this issue has already been addressed elsewhere, all names in the following story have been replaced with names from Saturday morni...

On Eating Our Own.

Here's something I'm still conflicted about: finding a statement that is basically feminist, basically accepting, but has some flaws...

Seven Points On Rape, Prevention, and Blame.

Okay. That one post seemed to provoke a bit of a clusterfuck, and although one obnoxious dude was about 75% of it, he wasn't all of it...

Grouchy Post, back by popular demand.

(I always forget about those sneaky bastards with RSS readers whenever I try to un-say something. Oh well. Cats and bags.) Sometimes I wish ...

Yes I do but not with you.

I want to have dirty wrong demeaning sex. I also want to have just plain a lot of sex. I want to have sex with a lot of people. Sometime...

Grouchy quiz!

1) You see a girl at a BDSM event and you notice people coming up and manhandling her without so much as a how-do-you-do, to which she react...

A Grand Game.

[This was the "too grouchy" post. Since people are talking about it anyway, what the hell. Just let me note that I don't thi...

Saving America.

I went to a class yesterday that was part rifle marksmanship and part Revolutionary War history, and we spent about eight hours lying on our...

Munching.

I've gone to a couple munches here in Boston and they have been pretty good. There's always people you don't like, that's i...

Leagues.

The concept of "out of your league" in dating is one of those areas where my ideals sometimes get muddled up with my real-life exp...

The Gentleman's Guide to Sending Dick Pictures to Random Women on the Internet.

1) Consider the wisdom of sending a dick picture. If the relationship she is seeking could be construed as a "dating" or "fr...

Confessional.

Bless me, sex-positivity, for I have sinned. I have practiced monogamy. I have nodded approvingly while secretly being bored to tears by ...

'Splaining.

So I guess the hot new word in the blogosphere is mansplaining. Mansplaining is "when a dude tells you, a woman, how to do something ...

The Gentleman's Guide to Ogling.

Between working at a job where I see a shit-ton of violent crime and reading umpty-billion Internet posts on rape, sometimes I feel a little...

The Unfriendly Ogle.

The creepiest look in the world, seriously the creepiest way one human being can make eye contact with another, is the Unfriendly Ogle. The...

The Scariest Monsters in the World.

The False Rape Accuser She stalks the streets at 2 AM, blackout drunk and clad only in pasties and a G-string, waiting for a respectable gen...

My Secondary Virginity.

My name is Holly, and I'm a secondary virgin. I've been a virgin for... two weeks now. Or three days depending what you count. I ...