A puppy, and maybe-jokes.

I just got back from Christmas with Rowdy's family!  It was happy and cozy and his parents cooked like they were fattening us up to eat ...

We are the 95%.

TRIGGER WARNING FOR RAPE on all that follows, including all links. [I wasn't going to write this post today. Believe it or not, I really...

Real consent.

tumblr user laceandcombatboots EDIT: Okay, some people are linking to this with the wrong intentions. I need to clarify.  This is NOT NOT NO...

Asking.

I've mentioned a couple times that Rowdy and I, despite being together almost two years now, always ask for consent before sex.  I feel ...

The scene is not safe.

[Trigger warning for rape and BDSM abuse.] I went to a sex party not long ago.  I talked to a bunch of the members and organizers of the gro...

A concise kink worksheet.

There's a lot of kink negotiation worksheets out there, and frankly, most of them are a mess .  500-item lists of "animal play (pup...