Coeur D'Alene, Idaho.

Driving was easier than I'd expected. I'm towing a big-ass cargo trailer with a non-big-ass engine, so I worried about getting over...

The Complinsult.

If I say "ugh, I'm so fat" to a guy, I certainly appreciate a "hey, I think you're hot" in return. But if I don...

Adventure!

First thing tomorrow morning, I turn in my Internet box. (Um... modem. "Internet box," Jesus.) First thing Sunday morning, I he...

'Splaining.

So I guess the hot new word in the blogosphere is mansplaining. Mansplaining is "when a dude tells you, a woman, how to do something ...

Satoshi Kanazawa is a douchebag and Psychology Today pays him for it.

Satoshi Kanazawa writes a blog for Psychology Today called The Scientific Fundamentalist. This doesn't mean that he's a Christian ...

The best advice I ever got.

When I was getting into the film industry as a young'un, the two people who had served as my mentors through an independent film gave me...

A Discussion About Sanding.

My friends and I were sanding a desk in preparation for painting. Specifically, we were working on the legs of the desk, wrapping sandpaper...

Gaaaaay.

I'm queer. Wait, what? I'm all about the dudes. I flirt with dudes, I date dudes, I get obsessed with dudes, I love Bruce Campbell...

Women should.

I wish more guys understood the difference between "I'm attracted to women who X" and "women should X." I also wish ...

Dream.

Okay, first of all, catch the Olympic fever! Secondly: last night I had a dream that I was giving birth. I had been in denial about being p...

Mommy Issues.

temporarily locked post, sorry

The Gentleman's Guide to Ogling.

Between working at a job where I see a shit-ton of violent crime and reading umpty-billion Internet posts on rape, sometimes I feel a little...

Shameless.

I have dreams about being naked in public a lot. (Some of this is probably just sensory bleed-through from sleeping naked.) I often feel s...

Auto.

I'm starting to believe that a surprisingly large proportion of men, maybe even most thin young men, are capable of autofellatio, but i...

Caught up in everything.

I just can't post about sex right now. It's nothing horrible, no one's dead and no one's even unhappy, my life is just... c...

A silly hangup, really.

Valentine's Day is one of those days, along with Christmas and 9/11, where it just doesn't feel right to be having uncommitted casu...

I'm not doing this for my health, honey.

A reader sent me this link to self-help "guru" Steve Pavlina's take on D/s and self-improvement. And first of all, before I r...

Holly Pervocracy's Top Two Excuses For Not Posting.

1. Not getting laid, nothing to write about 2. Getting laid, no time to write

Comfort.

Man, I love the feeling of a man on top of me. I don't mean in missionary sex, either (although god yeah do I love that and I don't...

Cosmocking: March '10!

Sorta pinkish-reddish cover! It's a weird in-betweeny color, my best description is "tomato"! Carrie Underwood! Totally ske...

The Unfriendly Ogle.

The creepiest look in the world, seriously the creepiest way one human being can make eye contact with another, is the Unfriendly Ogle. The...

The Scariest Monsters in the World.

The False Rape Accuser She stalks the streets at 2 AM, blackout drunk and clad only in pasties and a G-string, waiting for a respectable gen...

Don't Ask, Don't Tell.

It goes without saying what I think of Don't Ask, Don't Tell, right? So instead I'll just tell you what LabRat thinks of it, si...

Parable.

I found this story from SecondaryVirginity.com amazingly inspirational. A young couple walked into a jeweler's shop and they noticed th...

My Secondary Virginity.

My name is Holly, and I'm a secondary virgin. I've been a virgin for... two weeks now. Or three days depending what you count. I ...

How did you learn to fuck?

There isn't really a good way to learn sex. Sex ed in school covers the "Tab A, Slot B" basics and hopefully some of the safe...

Teflon Vagina.

I've had sex with some kinda terrible people. I lost my virginity to a guy who, in retrospect, was a socially useless creep. I fucked ...