Like a shark, can't hold still.

Is it possible to have the same sex and still enjoy it? Can you do it with no novelty in technique or dynamics and get anything out of it? ...

Prisoner of Love.

I got to Jon's house, said hi, and started taking off my boots. "Take off your socks too," he said. I did. "Face the do...

Casting the first stone.

"Come on, why are we judging her? You and I, we've both put things up our asses." "Yeah, but not five Sharpies ..."...

Hitting the wall.

The difficulty with keeping a personal sex blog, I'm finding out, is that sex isn't really all that interesting. How many variation...

Laid-back friendly casual whipping.

Benny got some new toys. A very mean and pinchy set of nipple clamps (holy crap do I love that feeling), and a riding whip. It's like ...

Anticipation.

"I might get laid tonight" is a much, much sexier thought than "I know I'll get laid tonight."

Young Love.

When I was fifteen, my twenty-one-year-old boyfriend told me he loved me. In hindsight I still believe it. It wasn't a very mature and...

"Subspace"?

Benny bent me forward, over the rail at the foot of the bed, thoroughly tied in place, blindfolded. I trembled in anticipation. Literally....

Gross/Sexy/Goofy/Geeky/Gross.

"I was jerking off the other night and I suddenly realized my penis still smelled like your mouth."

Aftereffects.

My nipples are still all bright pink and stingy. Well, not all the time, but when I touch them. That's basically all the time. Well, no...

Rough.

Alan can't be kinky in the formal ("formal?" sheesh) sense. Won't use toys, won't call it dominance and submission, w...

The "naughty" clinical rotation is optional in nursing school these days.

"You should dress up as a naughty nurse." "Um... you mean I should wear my scrubs?" "No! Yeek! That's not wha...

"It's all over the Internet."

I guess I could rant about how I've got an education and happiness and I'm going to have a family and Jesus Christ my fucking tax do...

Apple and Orange.

Alan is 5'7" and can kiss me without stooping. Benny is 6'1" and can beat me in a fair wrestling match. Alan is 27; Benn...

Wanting it more.

So far as I know, neither Alan nor Benny has any partners besides me. (While they don't explicitly know about each other, they do both ...

Satire, not paranoia. Well, a little paranoia. A skosh.

Suppose that there's a method of chemical castration that is 100% reversible and has no side effects except the total (temporary) loss o...

What I Learned From Google Analytics.

I put Google Analytics on this blog to track the traffic, partly for fun and partly to feed my narcisism. Because if I were estimating my o...

Dominating.

I'm getting better at it. I undressed Benny completely and left my own clothing on. Just a t-shirt and slacks, not exactly skin-tight b...

Butt.

You know, at least for Benny and me, I think our interest in anal play is based more in the symbolism than what it really is . Butt sex is t...

Expectations.

Before I had sex, I got the impression (from where I'm not sure, probably media more than humans) that the main difficulty was that men ...

Voyages of Discovery. (Fuckups.)

Most of my partners have been about the same experience level as me. I lost my virginity with a virgin; my first one-night stand claimed to...

*cat macro*

"I do want to try buttsex. Just not when I'm tied up and... not by surprise."

Ow.

I fell down Benny's stairs. We'd spent the evening having amazing and very complicated bondage sex, and my head was swimming a littl...

To Blove.

The new taboo is love. Sex is fine. I can tell Alan or Benny I'd like to have a particular kind of sex and they might say yes or no, bu...

Rhythm.

"Are you ready?" he asked. I wasn't; we'd had no foreplay at all. Fucking me now would hurt. Good. I know he likes me o...