S&M & M&M.

If there was one fact about BDSM, just one, that I could communicate to the culture at large, it would be this: at just about every BDSM pla...

Sex is cheap? Dude, it's FREE.

Two people independently sent me this link, so I guess there's a demand for this. Sex Is Cheap: Why young men have the upper hand in bed...

Gender smörgåsbord.

I think I've come up with a metaphor that clarifies my view of gender. Imagine a big table with tons of dishes laid out. Some of them a...

STuDly.

If our culture had any goddamn consistency, STIs, in a man at least, ought to be seen as a sign of virility. I mean, what better proof that...

Cosmocking: March '11! Part 2!

Wow, that was a long gap between Cosmockings. But this shit ain't over 'til it's over. There's an article on "super-pr...

Why I didn't have an abortion.

Because I never got pregnant in the first place. I lost my virginity, and entered into a pretty regular sexual relationship, at age 15. I kn...

Gender?

I seriously don't know that I'm a woman anymore. I mean, I don't think I'm a man . And I don't really have it in me to...

More allies than you think.

Rowdy and I ducked out of the Fetish Flea to the drugstore across the street to get some snacks and see if drugstores in Rhode Island sell b...

Baby's First Cosmocking!

I was sorting out my old personal papers today, and I came across some comics I drew in 2000, at age 14. (No scan, because the one in quest...

Retroactive pedophilia.

You know what's always a really awkward experience? Seeing pictures of someone you're sleeping with, when they were a child. Espec...

The 50% problem.

I believe 50% of CEOs, in a perfect world, should be women. But 50% would still be men, so I feel like I can't pick out a specific comp...

Cosmocking: March '11! Part 1!

Today's theme, remember, is The Lessons Of Cosmocking ! Thanks to Katie and Rowdy for contributing on this one. Red cover! Lea Michele...

All Fleaed out.

Whoof. Tired, sore, did not get any writing done, and soooo happy. I was hypnotized, beaten, flogged, tied up, fucked, fisted, scratched, ...

Fleaing the scene.

I'll be leaving for the Fetish Flea tonight, and the hotel charges a stupid amount for Internet, so I won't be posting 'til Mond...

From this month's "Glamour."

I don't buy Glamour, okay? I buy Cosmo and that's bad enough. But whoever sits at my desk on the day shift always leaves copies ...

Act without a name.

I wish there were some special word for the act of fucking someone with four fingers. (Er. I mean, using four fingers to fuck someone.) &...

Snow.

There was a house fire in my neighborhood a little ways back. The family in the house was killed. You can't really tell which house it ...

FLEEEEAAAAA!

This weekend, Sprite and Rowdy and I are going to the Fetish Fair Fleamarket in Providence for three days of debauchery, perversion, and ge...

Cooperative sex.

Some of the coolest sex happens when you get out of the mindset "I should show him/her what I've got" and into the mindset &qu...

Broccoli Morality.

When I was a kid, we'd have broccoli for dinner, and my mom would boil it to death with no seasonings (my mom is the worst cook), and I...

I'm twittering my social 2.0 in the cloud!

I got a Twitter. @pervocracy . Not much on it right now. I don't think I'll announce all my posts on it, since I'm near-daily...

Cosmocking: 7 Signs He Has Human Physiology!

I was writer's blocked this morning! I was blocked all bad . I wrote like half of "I want to have sex in the snow," then rea...

95% of this game is 100% mental.

For all the supposed crassness of their gender, in my experience men are often incredibly giving in bed. "My experience" is alway...