A puppy, and maybe-jokes.

I just got back from Christmas with Rowdy's family!  It was happy and cozy and his parents cooked like they were fattening us up to eat ...

Everyone else is doing it... right?

Now someone, somewhere, thinks it's normal to slut-shame a steak. Rowdy and I watched porn together last night.  Because Rowdy is a gent...

Why have sex?

Rowdy and I had another little  relationship summit last night.  We're trying to make it a monthly thing.  It's quickly gone from ...

A different kind of love.

Love songs don't work too well for Rowdy and me.  Romantic movies neither.  It's hard to pick out Valentine's cards.  All these ...

This is what negotiation looks like.

Friday night, Rowdy and I had a pretty major re-negotiation of our relationship.  It was a hard conversation to have, the kind with a lot of...

Economics vs. apples.

A day doesn't go by I don't see an article like  this one .  I'm not going to try to deconstruct it point by point, because it...

How I met Holly

[Guest post by Rowdy] (a not-rape-culture narrative, and why we need more of them) I’d seen her before, she’s in my group of friends - a bou...

"Is this spot taken?"

Far too often, patients at the ER try to hit on me. (If you are picturing someone cute and polite who is in the ER for reasons that have not...

The best things in life.

I'm in bed with Rowdy, half-asleep, curled up against his warm skin, his head on my arm and my other hand on his belly, and I can feel h...

Why I want to fuck my boyfriend up the ass.

Because he enthusiastically consents to it, yeah yeah, and because it's a morally neutral act that carries no shame, sure sure, of cours...

Search term.

I was going through my site analytics the other day, looking at my traffic and the search terms that bring people to the blog--both to give...

Anatomy of a Scene.

Rowdy and I are at a play party. We start flirting, playing around, him pulling my hair, pinching my breasts, shoving me up against the wal...

My Polyamorous Heart.

[Guest post by Rowdy] One of the typical assumptions about monogamy is that the heart is a defined quantity, to love more than one person is...

Zero-sum gender.

Rowdy mentioned to a coworker that I have more power tools than he does. "Wow," the coworker said, "doesn't that kinda c...

Cock.

Man I love strapping on a cock. It's not that I am or want to be a guy, just that it's nice to have the option from time to time. ...

Awesome.

Kind of awesome: having a theme date. Awesome: the theme is "Robo Date." Very awesome: as in "let's have a date where we ...

Quiet night.

Last night Sprite and Rowdy and I got together and... pretty much just stayed in. We ate some takeout, exchanged belated Christmas presents...

Freely given.

It's a little scary at first, but awesome when I think about it, that Rowdy not only can but does get sex and love elsewhere. Because h...

Weekend.

Events from this weekend: -I went to an undisclosed location with undisclosed persons to engage in mostly undisclosed activities, and I am h...

Unstoppable force, immovable object.

You know what the not-so-great part is about being a girl who can have repeated orgasms in rapid succession, having sex with a guy who has b...