Why female dominants are really submissive: the doublethink that will not die!

I said I'd get back to Twisty (I know she's Jill now, but it's so much catchier!) and I am. Her next post addresses female dom...

Another type of woman Twisty Faster hates!

Before I even begin, I want to mention something: when I first became interested in BDSM, my boyfriend at the time was very vanilla and bare...

Accommodating the disability.

I used to work at a place where there was one client who was mentally competent but was extremely grabby with female caregivers and on at le...

Crazy.

Percentage of people I met on Craigslist for random sex who turned out to be crazy: ~20%. Most of them were simply fellow lonely souls look...

Paradox fetish.

I get really turned on by a guy ordering me not to come. ...Which makes me really bad at it. "Oh yes sir, I won't come until you O...

Community.

There's being deaf, and then there's being Deaf. Some people can't hear; some people can't hear and are part of a well-defi...

Safeword games.

A little ways back, a guy at a BDSM party (not Benny) wanted to play with me. Specifically, he said "I'm going to hit you until yo...

Goodbye Benny.

Welp, I finally did it. Finally gave Benny the Fuck Off he's had coming for only about two years now. He'd gone from being an assh...

Minimize your unflattering you!

My roommate has a big stack of fashion magazines in the bathroom, and each one has an article on "dressing for different body shapes.&q...

Weird retorts.

On the rare occasions when I do get street-harassed, I always get the urge to yell really weird things back. I feel like saying "HEY F...

Shalom and ahoy.

Shana tova, me hearties!

Eighteen.

I'm a better lay than I was a year ago. I've gotten practice, I've learned a few new tricks, I've gotten more comfortable w...

Verbatim from my friend's employee handbook.

"Sexually oriented materials are offensive to many people. Therefore, the utmost discretion should be used when bringing these items t...

Better.

Not being depressed is, like not listening to neighbors' terrible music and not having a blister on your heel, one of the great negative...

Stronger.

I feel like my orgasms are getting stronger. Maybe it's just practice. But lately when I have sex it's like I'm fucking posse...

WARNING: LIVEJOURNAL POST FOLLOWS.

No, I am depressed. I'm not hungry, not sleepy, I'm just really fucking lonely. I'm the sort of person who'd rather have a...

BR CA.

It's amazing how often I think I'm in an absolute pit of depression because my whole life is a pathetic failure, then I eat somethin...

Good Morning.

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You'd think girls were rare or something.

Two things that don't happen to me all the time, but happen often enough to annoy: 1) At work, people observing that I'm a "wom...

Unrealistic.

Maybe I'm just too literal-minded, but I always get weirded out when guys ask "sexy" questions where the hot answer and the ho...

Cosmocking: October '09!

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Women's work.

Wow, crazy week has been crazy. And I don't mean "we're gonna need you to stay til 8" crazy, I mean haz-mat and FBI and t...

Tube tying.

A reader sent me a link to this comic , apparently approvingly. (Further scrutiny of this webcomic reveals certain problematic elements . A...