Cosmocking: January '12!

[I'm heading out of town on Christmas business for a few days.  I hope all the Pervocrats have a merry and, if applicable, sexy holiday ...

What do you want?

[Finals are over!  WHEEE!  Big serious essay today!  Cosmocking next!] I talk a lot on this blog about how sex should be dictated by what th...

Guest Post: What it's like to go to an STD clinic.

[I'm busy studying for finals. In the meantime, enjoy this guest post by Jack. I think it's important information for people who&#...

From slutty to horny.

Female horniness is an important, and missing, narrative in our culture.  We have a well-developed idea of female sluttiness , but that'...

How to Buttsex Someone Up But Good.

You want a buttsex post?  I'll give  you a buttsex post!  I'll give it to you right up your... Internet connection! How to Buttsex S...

Cosmocking! December '11! Part Two!

I hope everyone had a lovely Thanksgiving.  (Or a nice completely regular day if you're not from the US, I suppose.)  I got to spend it ...

Cosmocking: December '11! Part One!

Pink cover!  Adele!  Oh my God there's a woman over 120 pounds on the cover of Cosmo oh my God!  I'm vaguely insulted they put her i...

The Pervocracy Guide To Not Doing Stupid Things Because You're Angry.

A number of people on the de-escalation post asked for a post on de-escalating yourself.  I'll say up front: I'm on shakier ground ...

Strong woman.

It's a school night.  Quick one.  (Several people asked for a post on "self-de-escalation," so I'll try to put one togethe...

Escalation.

This week in Developmental Psychology class I presented a paper on dating violence in teenage relationships.  I'm not going to rehash th...

"Why do you care what other people think?"

This came up in comments on an earlier post, but it's worth a post of its own: why do I care and fret so much about whether or not peopl...

Slavering Beast Theory.

Photo credit: Lindowyn Stock (Trigger warning for rape and abuse.) I've been seeing a common underlying idea lately in a lot of discussi...

Test tubes.

I know I promised a buttsex post, but there's something you should know about me: I am a liar .  Also something more outrageous happened...

Sex-Pozzie.

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Cosmocking: November '11! Part Two!

Let's finish this! Mostly because I've been sitting on it in "ugh, do I have to?" misery and it's been stopping me fro...

Cosmocking: November '11! Part One!

White cover! Nicki Minaj! What the hell is going on with her neck?! Sex secrets, kinky sex... sexify your eyes! I am not sure I want my ey...

Beyond not rape.

Everyone (well, everyone cool) agrees that consent is the  most important thing in sexual activities.  It's the difference between haras...