Watershed moment.

When my first serious relationship ended, I thought I would never get laid again. For more than a year, I didn't. I just figured that ...

Tactile peek.

One of my favorite things is the feeling of a man getting hard inside his jeans. A guy getting hard not inside his jeans is pretty awesome ...

PT.

Here's a tricky question: in jobs like firefighting, police, and the military, should there be separate PT standards for men and women? ...

Treading the Twisty line.

My current work partner is, to put it mildly, not from my cultural background. He was raised as a very strict Traditional Values Evangelica...

Why sex is dirty.

I have a pair of stuffed animals, a little horse and cow, that I've had since I was born and they're extremely special to me; they s...

Three strawmen.

I so often hear sex described in terms of genitals. Sex is all about penis and/or vagina, and everything else is trappings. (Especially fo...

Cleanliness.

I had a one-night-stand a little ways back with a guy who seemed normal enough: cute curly hair, the not-socially-hopeless kind of geek, sup...

What I'm reading now.

Happyendingz - confessions of an erotic masseuse. It's a fascinatingly matter-of-fact look into a business I always thought was little m...

Internet Money.

In the past month I've been doing very well making money off the Internets (via Ebay and Etsy primarily, making jewelry and reselling us...

Links People Sent Me.

Woman's life made 'unbearable' by insatiable libido To be honest this isn't a sex story so much as a medical story, and if h...

iPorn.

So there I was, searching the iTunes App Store for some mindless fiddly-fiddly games to while away the workday, and what's topping the &...

Horrifying realization.

Some women wear panty-liners every day . Like, even when they don't have their periods! ...Am I gross because I don't? ...Why has n...

Cosmocking: January '10!

Bubblegum pink cover! Amanda Bynes! Her outfit is nice except for a weird belt around her belly and no belt in her actual belt loops! I j...

Makeup.

I don't really "get" makeup. I wear a little bit sometimes, but I don't really understand why, I'm just conforming to...

"The Silent Strike!"

Fabulous video link, courtesy elmo_iscariot: Cosmo Brainstorming (NWS dialogue but visually inoffensive.)

My First Porn Site.

When I was thirteen years old, my best friend and I started a porn site. Well, an erotica site; it didn't have photos, but there was a s...

Summer loving, winter loving.

Summer sex always seems a little more expansive, exploratory. Let's do it outside! Let's get up early and do it! Let's run all ...

Crazy clingy bitch.

An attitude I am really fucking sick of: "Yeah, this chick I fucked called back and was all like she wanted to see me again, talk about...

Oh no, the "youth" have technology!

One-third of youths have engaged in "sexting." By "youth" they mean ages 14-24, so I'm included there, despite my in...

Jealousy.

I don't entirely understand women who get jealous when their boyfriends look at porn. I understand strip clubs being more of a problem ...

The Two Myths of Desire.

When I started this blog, one of this first myths I wanted to tackle was that women weren't horny. (My counter-evidence consisting larg...